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Nobody ‘made you’ act or feel that way! (Books 1-4)
The concept that nobody can make you feel a certain way is definitely one of the most challenging concepts for many of us to learn!

Puberty and menopause under one roof ?! (Books #1, 2 &3)
Many mothers will live through the experience of dealing with hormonal changes in their children at the same time as their own hormones are

Triggers and thorns
When somebody ‘triggers’ us or touches one of our thorns, we often feel like our reaction is out of our control, so we start trying

Should colleges offer courses that support student mental health and well-being?
Students are coming to the realization that they need some help and guidance when it comes to managing their mental health. Colleges are realizing that

Is being a perfect parent good for our kids?
Children learn what they live. Most parents want to give their kids the very best that they can, and this is a wonderful thing. The

How do I raise a grounded child?
Raising a child who can manage whatever life throws their way begins with giving them a clearmodel of what that looks like.Even young children can begin to differentiate between Surfaceand Source with a little guidance. When parents encourage their children to engage in activitiesthat connect them to Source, children begin to understand what Source connection feels like.

What is attachment and peer orientation?
From John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth to Harry Harlow, researchers have discovered the importance of having a strong primary attachment figure. Human beings simply do

How can I help my child understand competition?
My favorite definition of competition is this: Striving together. Imagine the monumental shift in how our children approach all the various ways competition is introduced

Sexy comes in all shapes and sizes
Have you ever met someone and thought they were beautiful, but as you got to know them, they became less and less attractive? Or maybe

How to teach children about spirituality. Introduction to Lifelight Parenting.
Parents often want to ensure that their children havean understanding of spirituality and feelconnected to the world around them, but this can be challenging when we, as parents, struggle todefine what this means and how it feels. We are often bombarded by mixed messages and vaguedefinitions which leavesmany parents trying to teach and model something they can’t fullyexplain. Is spirituality religion?

What happens if our fight/flight/freeze system gets stuck? Introduction to Fred part 2
Once children are able to recognize the physical signs in their body that Fred is out, they can begin the process of managing their system.

What is our fight/flight/freeze system and how does it work? Introduction to Fred
Many children and adults struggle with self-regulating. They are challenged by feelings of anxiety, anger, or sadness. Unfortunately, many adults are unable to guide children